Books & Film
You Will Love ‘Things I Will Tell My Daughter’ by Joan Thatiah
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I stumbled upon Joan Thatiah’s books on X. She wrote this elaborate thread on the life of a male sex worker. I loved her narration and I respected her craft. As a society that shuns even age-appropriate sex education, having writers humanize sex workers is a necessity. From then on, I fell in love with her work. I have had her books on my TBR list for close to a year.
This year I have been lucky to read Things I Will Tell My Daughter. Severally, people have said books find you. I do not believe it is true (mainly because I feel I’m behind in my reading and don’t need any excuse) but this specific book found me. Turning twenty-four feels like new womanhood. A new level of adulthood. The last year before my prefrontal cortex develops.
Baby fever imenitwanga this year, wacha tu! Because of this, I jumped to part 4 – Motherhood. The first chapter I read was, And the perfect time to have a baby is… In a well-written chapter, she reminds us it is okay to never want children, to plan for our pregnancies and only have kids for ourselves, and if you do keep an unplanned pregnancy nothing is wrong with you, understand it ain’t easy. Safe to say, the baby’s fever went down. I love the age I was born and raised in, millennial and Gen Z mums are more open to discussing the struggles of motherhood, openly. We can now make informed decisions.
Book Review
In part one – Womanhood, Joan Thatiah feels like a big sister: paving the way for you and reminding you where to step. She reminds us to be confident, to set boundaries, to read, to accept our bodies, to show up for ourselves, and to only honor the girl code when it makes sense.
Part two – Your Heart, felt like those late-night chats with your besties. The ones that end with promises to do better, be better, choose better partners… those nights when you have a heart-to-heart conversation. She dropped a bomb too: the butterfly feeling in your stomach can blind you to red flags in a relationship. She then reminds us, that when the honeymoon ends and the commitment phase of the relationship begins, there will be no more butterflies.
In part three – Your Money, she places femininity and money together. According to spirituality, femininity and money go hand in hand. But I have never seen them grouped career-wise. She narrates how they judged a colleague who dressed well and played the game (office politics) and now has an illustrious career. Growing up we had the cousins and aunties we were warned about. The rebellious ones. Part three felt like talking to this aunty. Sitting in her expensive home, sipping something, a long expensive-looking rob covering just the essential parts, probably reading a magazine. She stops reading and reminds you this is your life. She reminds you, that you’re a woman and you have been and will continue to be judged. She looks at your chest, tells you, you are growing, and gives you a lacey bra. Tells you red lipstick would look good on you and reminds you to read. She probably makes a shit load of money, only helps those she wishes, and drives “like a man”.
Would I read the book again? Yes! As I re-read the book, I will use the book as a journaling guide. In part three, I found certain statements triggered more than just an aha moment. I had to sit with them. For example, on page 111, she reminds us that this is a man’s world and we do not have to conform to how men get things done. I had to question how I was getting things done. Was I in alignment with who I was? Or was I performing for this world?
And as for my daughters, when I can afford to have one or two, will be reading this book. You should read it too!
Books & Film
The Waiting Room: A satirical play by Igiza Arts.
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Whenever someone mentions theatre plays, my mind rushes back to my embarrassing situation. In form 3, void of hobbies and dying to be anywhere else but school, I auditioned for a place in the music festival plays. Not only did I not make the first cut, but also failed to project my voice. That day my voice box failed and in turn, I carry such great respect for theater actors and plays. Plays were my forte back in high school. All this to say, I’m back, in love with theatre and plays and the message.
A lot has happened to us (Kenyans) in 2024, and since art is the mirror in which society checks itself, Igiza Arts presents a satirical drama “The Waiting Room”.
The Waiting Room is a play written by Playwright Martin Abuya and produced by Arnold Mandu. As we tweet #paydoctors and #occupyMOH, we know sometimes, our healthcare system is flawed.
Martin Abuya uses humour to address issues in our healthcare system and family fabric. “Through ‘The Waiting Room,’ I hope to highlight the challenges faced by both healthcare workers and patients in Kenya. It’s a reflection of our reality, delivered with a mix of satire and heart,” said Martin.
The talented cast includes Kennedy Kithia, Lisa, Jeff Obonyo, Vanessa Gichio, Edna Kariuki, Muthoni Njoki, Harold Kerry, Lydia Mamati, Prince Kamselele, Linda Kamuri, Sammy Waweru. Edna Kariuki and Lydia Mamati as the stage managers.
Igiza Arts Production a renowned production house, has continuously pushed the boundaries of Kenyan theatre, fostering a deeper appreciation for the performing arts, and providing a platform for artists. They aim to produce and showcase thought-provoking, impactful theatrical works. Earlier this year, they produced Severed Justice, a play on police brutality as experienced in the #RejectFinanceBill protest. The show was a success.
They have also produced shows such as The Ideal Husband, Law & Behold, Sins& Secrets, and Don’t Dress for Dinner.
The show premiers on September 7th and 8th 2024, at 3 pm and 6 pm on both days. Where? Kenya National Theater. What should you bring? Handkerchiefs, you might laugh… or cry! Tickets are available
Books & Film
Inside Out 2 becomes the first animated film to hit $1 billion
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In a remarkable achievement, Pixar’s Inside Out 2 has shattered box office records by becoming the first-ever animated film to gross over $1 billion at the international box office. This achievement not only highlights the film’s widespread appeal but also secures its position in cinematic history as one of the few films to cross this significant financial milestone.
Inside Out 2’s success stands out significantly among animated films. Historically, animated features have often struggled to compete with blockbuster live-action films in terms of box office revenue. However, Inside Out 2 has defied expectations, joining an elite group of only 12 films that have surpassed the billion-dollar mark. This exclusive club includes cinematic giants such as Avatar(2009), and Avatar: The Way of Water as well as timeless classics like Titanic. Additionally, it shares this honour with superhero epics like Avengers: Endgame and Avengers: Infinity War and the iconic Star Wars: Episode VII – The Force Awakens.
The film’s groundbreaking financial success can be attributed to several factors. First and foremost, Inside Out 2 builds on the beloved foundation of its predecessor, which was released in 2015. The original film was not only a critical darling but also resonated deeply with audiences, exploring the complex emotions of a young girl navigating life’s challenges. This emotional depth, combined with Pixar’s signature animation quality, has created a strong fan base eager for the sequel.
Moreover, the marketing strategy surrounding Inside Out 2 has played a crucial role in its box office success. By tapping into nostalgia and resonating with both children and adults, Pixar has successfully attracted a diverse audience. The film’s themes of growth, self-discovery, and emotional intelligence resonate universally, making it relatable and relevant to viewers of all ages.
The achievement of Inside Out 2 also reflects a growing trend in the animation industry where animated films are increasingly recognized as serious competitors in the box office arena. As technology continues to advance, allowing for stunning visual storytelling, and as more studios invest in high-quality animated productions, the line between animated and live-action films continues to blur.
In conclusion, Inside Out 2 stands as a testament to the power of storytelling and the evolving landscape of animated cinema. Its record-breaking box office performance not only marks a historic achievement for Pixar but also paves the way for future animated films to reach new heights. As audiences continue to embrace the magic of animation, it is clear that the genre is more than just child’s play. It is a force to be reckoned with in the film industry.
Books & Film
6 of the Best Movies to Watch This August
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The box office experienced a slow start at the beginning of the year with several big-budget films like “furiosa” and “madame webb” underperforming. However June and July witnessed record-breaking ticket sales with films like “Inside Out 2,” and “Deadpool and Wolverine” dominating the box office. From thrilling action adventures to heartwarming dramas, there’s something for everyone. Let’s dive into what’s hitting the big screen this month.
1. It ends with us
Adapted from Colleen Hoover’s bestselling novel It Ends with Us, the film follows Lily (Blake Lively) as she attempts to escape the shadows of her abusive childhood. A budding romance with a neurosurgeon ignites a spark, but as their relationship deepens, she uncovers troubling similarities to her parents’ toxic dynamic.
2. Trap
This psychological thriller written and directed by M. Night Shyamalan follows a man and his teenage daughter who realize they’re at the center of a dark and sinister event while watching a concert. Trap carefully foreshadows its suspenseful plot twists without revealing too much, keeping audiences engaged.
3. Blink Twice
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If you enjoy a good mystery with plenty of twists and turns, blink twice will keep you guessing. When tech billionaire Slater King (Channing Tatum) meets cocktail waitress Frida at his fundraising gala, he invites her to join him and his friends for a dream vacation on his private island. When strange things start to happen, Frida must uncover the truth if she hopes to make it out alive.
4. AfrAId
This atmospheric horror film follows a man’s family who are selected to test a new home device: a digital assistant called AIA. The device learns the family’s behaviors and begins to anticipate their needs. She makes sure nothing and no one gets in her family’s way.
5. Jackpot
Need a good laugh? Look no further. Jackpot is a comedy gem about Awkwafina as Katie, a wannabe actor who, in 2030, wins the lucrative, multi-billion-dollar grand lottery jackpot. She has until sundown to collect her prize, but there’s a catch: Anyone who kills the winner and grabs the ticket can lay claim to the fortune. The film also features John Cena.
6. Borderlands
Based on the best-selling videogame, this all-star action adventure follows a ragtag team of misfits on a mission to save a missing girl who holds the key to unimaginable power. The films feature Kevin Hart, Jack Black, and Jamie Lee Curtis among other popular stars.
August promises a cinematic feast for all tastes. Whether you’re seeking heart-pounding action, side-splitting comedy, thought-provoking drama, or spine-chilling horror, there’s a movie out there waiting to entertain and captivate you.
So grab your popcorn, dim the lights, and prepare for a cinematic adventure.
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