Utacheza ‘loser’ for how much longer? If you really think you are that good, why not put that to the test? Why not make some money and name for yourself? The world of competitive gaming has exploded, and it’s not just something you see in flashy tournaments in the UK or read about in gaming magazines. If you’ve ever found yourself completely immersed in a game at home, or at your locals whether it’s dominating in FIFA, constructing the perfect strategy in League of Legends, or building in Fortnite, there’s a good chance you’ve got the skills to compete against other gamers. This could mean something. You know how if you’re good at football you go places if you get spotted or if you can run pretty fast you get to represent the country? Well, gaming is now in that same category and could take you places.

Welcome to the World of Esports

Esports, or electronic sports, has become a massive global phenomenon. Picture this: stadiums packed with cheering fans, not for a Manchester City vs Manchester United match, but to watch teams of gamers compete in intense, fast-paced virtual battles. These are real athletes of the digital age, training hard, developing strategies, and competing for glory and substantial cash prizes. Esports is a billion-dollar industry, and it’s only growing. There are leagues and tournaments dedicated to popular games like FIFA, Fortnite, and Call of Duty, with some events drawing in millions of viewers worldwide.

Let us know which games you think you are the best at in the comments

Esports in Africa and Kenya

You might think that this gaming fever is something only happening far away, but Africa is rapidly becoming a hotspot for esports too. In Kenya, the gaming community is vibrant and growing. Local tournaments are becoming more frequent, offering a platform for gamers to showcase their skills. This September 7th, all eyes will be on the Gaming Impact Grand Series at the Kenya Cinema, one of the most anticipated esports events of the year. Organised by AlphaClan Esports in partnership with EsportsAfrica, SmartVR, Jiwe Esports, Paydhq, Barbah Games, Kenya Film Classification Board, and VibeYetu, this event is a golden opportunity for local gamers, you, to step into the limelight.

From Home Gamer to Esports Pro

So, how do you go from playing games at home to competing in these high-stakes tournaments? The first step is simple: start competing. Many gamers begin their journey by entering local competitions, whether online or at nearby gaming hubs. Not only do these tournaments provide a platform to test your skills, but they’re also fantastic for meeting other gamers, learning new techniques, and maybe even finding a team to join. Even more similar to reality sports, at these local tournaments your talent could be spotted by sponsors and coaches.

Imagine going to the Gaming Impact Grand Series, not just as a spectator, but as a competitor. Picture yourself going head-to-head with other gamers, feeling the rush as you score that winning goal in FIFA or pull off a last-second victory in a shooter game. It’s not just about winning; it’s about the experience, the community, and the thrill of the game. Who knows, your name might be the next one called out as a champion!

The Career Potential in Gaming

Beyond the glory of competition, gaming has even more career potential. Pro gamers can earn money through tournament winnings, sponsorships, and even streaming their gameplay online. But it doesn’t stop at being a player. The gaming industry is vast, with roles for game developers, designers, shoutcasters (the commentators of the esports world), and coaches. If you’ve ever had a passion for gaming, there’s a place for you in this industry. And getting involved in local tournaments is the first step towards making that passion a profession.

If you love gaming, don’t limit yourself to just playing at home. Explore the competitive side of gaming, enter local tournaments, and see where your skills can take you. The Gaming Impact Grand Series is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect place to start. Whether you come as a competitor or a spectator, you’re sure to leave with new friends, new skills, and a newfound love for the world of esports. So, why not give it a shot? You could be the next big name in Kenyan esports!

If you are like me, then you fall in love fast and face first. Which means the heartbreaks leave you in pieces. Heartbreaks feel like someone yanked your heart, slowly grating it and making fun of you, in front of their friends and your friends. It feels like a log on your chest and a stone on your back. I suppose this should be a how to fall in love with decorum article but I am yet to learn that. So, here is a heartbreak manual for suckers of love, if you are like me.

There is nothing wrong with you

Understand there is nothing wrong with you and are not to self-loathe over how you feel. It takes a lot of courage and bravery to fall in love without restricting yourself. My last heartbreak had me swearing I would never ever fall in love like that. I would guard my heart. I would be strategic with my love. I would never ever lower my guard. It is very okay to feel this. But, do not suppress yourself because someone took advantage of your heart, of you. We all make mistakes and the lesson here is you leave immediately the red flags appear, not closing your heart out entirely.

It’s a very brave thing to fall in love. You have to be willing to trust somebody else with your whole being, and that’s very difficult, really difficult, and very brave.

Nicole kIdman

Support system

Call your friends or support system. I know you feel embarrassed and maybe ashamed because some of them might have forewarned you but still, talk to them. Sometimes, my legs feel numb when the pain hits the right spot. Unable to function, I have found having a friend around helps. (Is this a safe space?) I have booked therapy sessions to discuss a heartbreak. Having a certified therapist walk me through the steps made the process easier. However, what started as getting over my ex turned to self-worth, and self-acceptance sessions, which brings me to my next point.

Make better decisions next time

Miss, when you let red flags look pink, what do you expect? I know people switch up and that is not your fault. But, not leaving when they switch up is your fault. Your self-concept plays a huge role in how you face love and how you recover from it. As I mentioned, there is nothing wrong with falling completely in love. But being a certified lover does not exempt you from choosing better people. You see, when your self-worth is low, you will reject or sabotage healthy loving relationships. When you do not accept every part of you, you will fall in love with people who mirror this. Until you love, accept and care for yourself you will keep manifesting lukewarm love. You are deserving of more.

We wish we had a trailer into people’s lives that way we know what we are getting ourselves into. To that, I say, we do. People can lie and pretend to be someone they are not, but at the end of the day they do show us who they are, and it slips out. All you have to do is see and acknowledge it, hard as it may be. For example, if you want someone to fall in love with, notice their pattern. I know, I know, they might lie, but check how they love themselves, people do not have the ability to lie to themselves. Surely, someone who denies themselves ease will give you the soft love you wish for. Someone who tells you love should be strategic will not give you the fairy tale you so badly want.

Express what you feel

If you have a hard time verbalizing your pain, write about it. I create time to write what I feel. Using prompts even when you are not a writer helps, below are some of the journal prompts I use:

–              Write a letter to your ex expressing anything you wish you had said

–              Write a list of things you liked about them. Highlight the characters you have.

–              Write a list of things you hate about them.

–              Vividly describe what you feel. Where does it hurt, what part of your body feels heavy etc.

–              Write a letter to yourself on all the things you would love to hear at that moment.

 Talking also helps. Call a friend and rant, I promise they weren’t joking when they said A problem shared is a problem half solved. What is not okay, is not checking in with them first. Your heartbreak should not excuse basic manners.

There is no one cure-for-all to heartbreaks. One heartbreak had me in the gym, another one had me writing poetry and another in therapy. The only way not to heal is by embarrassing yourself by not moving on when you really have to.

It takes a brave heart to heal, and fall in love – completely. Do not be strategic with love, soon you will find a certified lover. May you find the courage to fall in love again., and again. Heal and find love.

 Heartbreak si mwisho wa dunia! I promise

If your friend has been there for you during one of your heartbreaks, here’s a list of gifts you should get them.

With everything going on in the country, there’s no better time to regret not having voted than right now. But don’t worry, mko wengi. But the question back then and perhaps right now is; Is your vote really that important? or maybe you had other reasons for not having voted?

Fair enough, maybe you were less than 18 years old, in which case, your time will come, be ready. Or maybe, you were in prison. In Kenya, prisoners can vote only in the presidential election, so perhaps that limited your participation. Or maybe, you were just too busy. But that still leaves a whopping number of eligible voters who chose not to vote. According to the Independent Electoral and Boundaries Commission (IEBC), out of 22,120,458 registered voters, only 14,466,779 turned up to vote. That means about 35% of registered voters didn’t participate. And that registered voters. Did you register to vote?

The media often call it “voter apathy,” but that term implies that non-voters are lazy people who would rather stay in bed than go to the polling station to queue in the scorching sun for an hour. The truth is more complex. A lot of people are informed, passionate, and knowledgeable, but have chosen, for their own reasons, not to participate. What legitimate, well-thought-out reasons could they possibly have? Share your reasons for not voting in the comment below.

Does One Vote Really Matter?

It’s fun to fantasize and imagine that your one vote could tip the balance and change the result of a general election. Realistically, of course, that never happens. Much more likely, you live in a constituency where it’s pretty obvious who’s going to win. Kenya has a ‘succession’ process for picking future politicians, and it can feel like it’s pointless because which tribe you come from and who endorses you matters. This is especially true if you prefer one of the smaller parties.

But here’s the thing: even if you can’t change who your MP is going to be, you can change their behaviour. How? The way parties behave in government is influenced by more than just the election results. It’s down to the election details. The morning after the General Election, all the stats of how many voters voted for whom and where are there for all to see, and party leaders are watching very carefully.

Every vote for a small party is a vote taken away from one of the big ones, and the big ones will do everything they can to try to win you back. Don’t believe me? Just look at some recent shifts in policy. When minor parties gain support, major parties often adjust their policies to win those votes back. So, every vote sends a message, even if it doesn’t elect your preferred candidate. Remember how much influence peak Opposition under Raila Odinga had on policymaking and the general direction of decision-making?

What If Everyone Thought the Same?

Could it be that you’re not voting because you think your vote doesn’t matter? Well, it seems really obvious, but what if everyone thought the same as you? Let’s say everyone in your constituency thought their MP was really safe and there was no need to vote, I mean we know they WILL win this right? It’s happened before in many places around the world. A supposed “safe seat” can be lost if too many supporters assume their vote isn’t needed. Your MP, no matter how popular, needs your vote to ensure they get the position.

There’s also a big difference between winning by miles and winning by a hair’s breadth. If your MP gets a thumping majority, they’ll be more confident about their convictions. On the other hand, if they just scrape in, they’ll be forced to compromise and pander to voters who never liked them in the first place. So you see? Succession politics is far from perfect, but there is no such thing as a wasted vote. That’s so important, I’ll say it again: there is no such thing as a wasted vote.

What If None of the Parties Speak to You?

For many people, after reading all the manifestos, watching all the party political broadcasts, and browsing all the party websites, they’ve decided that not a single one of the parties speaks to them. If this is you, rather than remove your voice completely, why not do something more productive and more fun? You can vote “None of the Above.”

In some countries, that’s actually a box you can tick, but in Kenya, you do this by spoiling your ballot. The rules of the ballot box are strict. You put an “X,” and nothing else, to make sure there’s no chance of error or fraud. If you put a tick, colour the box in, rank the candidates out of ten, or write something else, that’s called a “spoilt ballot,” and it won’t be valid. BUT IT WILL BE COUNTED.

Politicians will see the “None of the Above” votes, and they’re much more likely to try to win you over and much more likely to fix the system if you’ve bothered to go out and vote. Spoiling your ballot is an absolute worst-case scenario, a last resort, but it’s so much better than not voting at all.

It’s totally understandable why people think there’s no point in voting, but if you do go out and vote, there’s one thing that you’re absolutely guaranteed. When you and your friends are bitterly complaining that the country is being mishandled by a government you dislike, you can at least take solace in the ability to smugly shrug and say, “Well, it wasn’t our fault.”

So, is your vote really that important? Absolutely. Your vote matters more than you think, and your participation helps shape the future of Kenya. We are held accountable to governance by voting and who we give this power. Make sure your voice is heard, you affirm your citizenship and patriotism through involvement. This is how