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Women do not dress to impress men



Men have never been a factor when it comes to how a woman dresses. Someone put it well, ‘if women wanted to impress men, they would walk around naked’. This is because a woman’s outfit is influenced by so many factors other than what has been previously thought of. For instance:

The mood

The mood of a woman has the number one influence on her outfit choices. For instance, when she is tired and bored she is likely to dress down to show the little effort that went into the outfit. When she is happy and the sun is shining bright in her world you will definitely notice the effort and the fun in her step. Mood goes hand in hand with personality since not every woman dresses colorfully when they are happy nor dull when in a sour mood.

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Occasion also determines the type of outfit a woman pulls out of her closet. Women tend to respect what an occasion requires of them. That is why they become the center of attraction because they aim to do their best to be in compliance with the host’s instructions. Take the MET GALA for example.


Women can be influenced by their upbringing/ culture when it comes to dressing. Women that come from reserved homes are probably to hold on to the values instilled in them at a tender age. Women who were brought up in open-minded homes are likely to incorporate other ideas that will be appealing to them as influenced by the factors mentioned earlier. The same women who were raised in reserved homes may step out of their comfort zone to try something different. It is never a dull day when it comes to women.

Menstruation cycle

This is where the hormones come to play. These are usually released at different times on the menstrual cycle, hence bringing about different bodily changes. For instance, when estrogen levels are high in the body, it causes bloating. In this case, a woman may be self-conscious thus staying away from slim fighting garments. The minute the levels stabilize you will see a side of that woman that you never thought would resurface.

The weather

From heavy outfits to light ones, women consider the weather while choosing their outfits. It is under very few circumstances where they find themselves dressed only for the weather to change on them. In which case, they remedy it instantly.


Pop culture has a lot of influence on the way people dress especially women. In the effort to align with fresh global ideas, women are most likely to learn and dress accordingly.

Having said that, it is about time we should rest the notion that women dress to impress men.

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Entertainment News round up




A lot is happening in a short span of time. Therefore we thought to fill you in on happenings that may have skipped your timeline.

Nikita Kering got nominated for AFRIMAWARDS 

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Recently, Nikita Kering, a Kenyan RnB artist was nominated for the All Africa Music Awards in three categories 1. Best Female Artiste in Eastern Africa 2. Songwriter of the year 3. Best Artiste, duo, or group in African RnB Soul. Voting is ongoing on Vote for her!

Kevin Hart launched a clothing line

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The line which is dubbed ‘the Hart collection’ is produced in collaboration with fabletics, Kevin Hart and his wife Eniko Hart. The collection comprises mostly sporting gear, hats and sweaters.


Venessa Mdee welcomed a baby girl

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The Tanzanian artist who is engaged to power actor Rotimi recently welcomed their first child. The superstar who currently resides in Nigeria with her fiancé announced her pregnancy with a picture on her social accounts. She followed that recently with the hand of a newborn and a caption bearing the name Seven Adeoluwa Akinosho. Kenyan celebrities who flooded her timeline with congratulatory messages include Tallia Oyando, Akothee, and Sarah Hassan.


Vybz Kartel bought his family property

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After 10 years of incarceration, Vybz Kartel, the famous dancehall artiste is now investing in property for his family. In an Instagram post, he announced that he had procured land for his son who was now a father, and bought a house for his aging mother and father.

Kenyans vote Otile Brown, the biggest artist in Kenya See the source image

Nairobi Gossip Club hosted an opinion poll where they asked Kenya to mention the biggest Kenyan artist. As usual, fans took to commenting where most comments indicated that they considered Otile Brown the biggest artist in Kenya. Otile Brown must have impressed his fans by his work ethic, strategic collaborations and his relentless urge to rise as a star.

Other honourable mentions included Nyashinski, Sauti Sol, Khaligraph Jones and Nikita.

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How to rock skirts in your 20’s




Skirts may seem old fashioned to many young ladies. However, the truth is that they can be really fashionable when a few things are considered. Especially if you are a young lady who wishes to tap into your feminine side. The following are tricks to rock skirts:

Minding the length of an A-line skirts

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As a young lady, your goal is to look your age and actually live in the moment. The best way to achieve this is by wearing a fun, playful, short A-line skirt. For the icing on the cake, make it sheer or any other fabric gets blow away by the wind easily. You will probably get reprimanded by a parent or guardian but that is how you know you are doing it right. Wink*

Your wardrobe should not miss denim skirts

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Denim will never go out of style, plus, it’s ageless. You just need to get a good fit for your figure. What makes it even amazing is the fact that you can pair a denim skirt with just a t-shirt of any colour and you will look like Rihanna on a ‘lazy day’. (laugh please)

You have got to get on the African print band wagon

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If you are not rocking African print in any design, then you are officially declared ‘not cool’. There is a certain sense of pride that comes with getting aligned with African born trends. Besides, which other fabric could give you such fun print to accentuate your fun side. Also, what you will appreciate about it is its versatility. Get you that African print skirt sister.

Style your mini-skirt with a polo neck 

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This is called the counter effect or the balance effect (made up concept). These two pieces allow you to look fully covered up even though your legs are happily enjoying some atmospheric pressure. The polo neck tends to draw attention away from the bare legs; activating the counter effect.


Skirt suits

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This may be a stretch to far, but listen, just tweak the skirt suit to what you would like it to be. If you wish it to be fitting, short then go for it. You might as well break it so you do not come off ‘matchy matchy’. If your goal for the day is to look bold and professional, then a skirt suit is what you need. The times we live in may convince you otherwise, since skirt suits may seem appropriate for the older generations, however the fact is the boss look is deserved by all. So go for it!

Get a good heel

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Your final assemblage of your skirt outfit will make more sense if it is paired with suitable pairs of heels. Go with what works best for you, may it be a knee high boot, wedges or stilettos. The height that heels give you is what gets you looking glamorous and fancy. In other cases just go for a court heel

Semi-official skirt

Sasha Obama's style is so grown-up - we love her in this pleated colorblock Kate Spade skirt!


Some moments call for toning down on the ‘madness’ for a semi-official skirts. This may be times when you are having a meeting over lunch (outdoor meeting) or attending an event where drawing attention to oneself may be unnecessary.

So go ye forth and buy that skirt because, you can pull it off girl!

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Celebrity styles at the MET Gala 2021 (Photos)

Yes, the MET finally happened, and the guests sure brought their A-game to the exquisite event.



With the main focus on the theme, ‘In America: A Lexicon of Fashion’, we saw a whole display of fashion. From Kim Kardashian’s mysterious aura, to Lupita Nyongo’s denim gown, everything sure was a spectacle. Let’s check out some of the most memorable outfits at the ball.


Singer, Normani came through in a Valentino gown. Credit/ Matt Baron


Model, Winnie Harlow wearing an Iris Van Herpen jumpsuit. Credit/ Matt Baron


Met Gala 2021 Red Carpet Fashion: What the Stars Wore

Saweetie was giving body in her Christian Cowan dress. Credit/ Matt Baron


Natalia Bryant stepped in with a disco dress by Coner Ivers. Credit/ Matt Baron


Rihanna giving Balenciaga vibes. Credit/ Matt Baron.

Kendall Jenner in a shear statement dress. Credit/ Matt Baron


Lupita wearing Versace. Credit/ Matt Bryant


Gabrielle Union wearing Iris Van Herpen. Image/ Matt Baron


Lil Nas X Pulled a Lady Gaga With Three Outfit Changes at the Met Gala 2021 — See Photos | Teen Vogue

Lil Nas brought IT with a three outfit transformation. Image/ Teen Vogue


Iman attends The 2021 Met Gala

Iman in a beautiful Gucci design! Credit/ Getty Images

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