You may look cute in your white tee and skinny jeans but wearing this every day of the week can get quite boring. You don’t want to switch up your style completely and lose your identity. The goal is to ameliorate your style and look better while at it. We curated this 5 outfits must haves for a closet renovation.
A kimono is the spice you need for the minimalistic white tee and jeans look. You can wear either a long or short kimono of your favorite color or pattern. Don’t shy away from this attire and layer it when you need to add a bit of personality to your outfit. You can wear it to a wedding, a casual meet-up with friends and even a date. If you decide to wear a heavy-patterned kimono ensure you keep it simple with the shoes so as not to overpower the kimono’s purpose as the center-piece.
Everyone loves a cozy and warm look especially during the cold season. A beanie serves triple duty by providing comfort, warmth and, if styled well, an outstanding look. Ensure your beanie is the right fit and don’t shy away from color. If you’re wearing a one shade color from head to toe add that pop of color with your beanie and stand out. Make sure you find what works for you and run with it!
Bomber jackets will never run out of style and can really change a dull look to a fashion killer. There are a variety of bomber jackets with different color shades, fit and patterns. To add an extra vibe to it, try the Ankara pattern when you purchase your next bomber jacket for a change. With most guys shying away from color, an Ankara bomber does the trick. A tip to getting the perfect color shade is if you’re dark-skinned, go for warmer tones like orange and red. For light-skinned guys cool tones such as blue should be your best friend. At the end of it all, don’t limit yourself and break fashion boundaries.
Mentioning a head scarf to a group of guys a couple of years ago would have been deemed insanity. However, now most of them are slowly taking it up and embracing it as a fashion craze. For instance, tying a head scarf around your forehead will leave everyone turning heads. This fashion trend is for the liberal but don’t on’t be afraid to try. If you’re new to the whole idea, first start with plain head scarfs then move your way up to more colourful or bolder patterns. The trick to wearing a head scarf for first timers is to ensure it matches with your shirt or t-shirt.
Self-care guide for the modern man
When you log in to social media and see the hashtag ‘self-care’ nine times out of ten it has nothing to do with a man. It is highly likely to be accompanied by a picture of a woman in a fancy bathrobe knocking back some Pinot Noir and probably needing a break from some man somewhere. This therefore creates the societal premise that self-care should be a foreign term to a man. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
At heart self-care is taking the initiative to improve, maintain or better your own well-being whether physically, emotionally or mentally in spite of your gender. There is however a stark difference between temporarily distracting yourself and practicing self-care. A lot of times people especially men associate distracting activities such as drinking some beer, watching sports and club hopping with self-care. We therefore look into some basic healthy practices to get you started on your self-care journey
As personalized as self-care can be, there are certain basics that are a constant and exercise is one of them. Exercise raises the levels of endorphins – the happy hormone, in the body. It is also a great way to rid your body and mind of all the tension and pent up stress that might have built up during the day. Contrary to popular belief, exercise for men doesn’t have to mean lifting the heaviest weights or running the longest distance. Striving to do all these things at once makes the activity just another distraction and no better for the mind than playing video games. The trick is to not think of exercise in terms of calories burned. Instead, focus on building mind-body awareness whether you’re doing yoga, tai chi or lifting the heaviest barbell.
Build great relationships
Fostering great human relationships is and can be a great self-care avenue. Fostering such relationships however doesn’t always have to mean spending all your time these friends. Dedicating at least an hour to your friendships and engaging in passion projects such as tinkering with cars, building some furniture is enough. In the process intimate conversations are had. You therefore ending up tackling soft spots such as relationship troubles, seeking advice from people who’ve gone through similar experiences without it feeling like therapy or a support group. However if baring your soul to other people sounds uncomfortable to you, you don’t have to. Just taking your time and productively enjoying your friends company is self-care enough.
Pampering is the most recognized form of self-care. This deeply personalized exercise is a very valid form of self-care although as seen above is not the only form of self-care. Pampering yourself involves going the extra mile to ensure you indulge in the comforts you wouldn’t normally splurge on. This could involve booking that trip you’ve always wanted to take, going to the spa for a massage or to the sauna for a proper sweat out or even going to watch your favorite football team play live. There is nothing off the table when it comes to pampering yourself, as long as it truly relaxes you, it counts.
Self-care is therefore not in the activity but in the intention behind it. Building your emotional, mental and physical well-being ultimately ensures your reservoir of resilience is healthily stocked for the rainy days. Seeing as male suicide rates are on the up, such practices are in the end very crucial in having the emotional bandwidth to cope with the difficult times.
Must-have heels for every woman’s shoe collection
Heels are adored by most women globally and with good reason. The right pair of heel can boost ones confidence and esteem. Moreover, having a variety will give you more options to work with. Here are must-have heels for the heel lovers.
They are extremely comfortable and make a good balance between comfort and style. The heel is very small and this makes it easier for one to wear them the entire day without getting tired.
Stilettos have the highest heel. For this reason, many people avoid wearing or even owning a pair of stiletto heels. Although a number of people struggle walking in them, once you master your strut them you’ll be hooked. They are most ideal for any formal event.
They have a lower heel as compared to stilettos and are low-cut around the front. They can be worn with anything and anywhere.
Chunky heels have a square base that is wider. They are a favorite for many as one can wear them the entire day and not tire. For this reason, they are a good option for college and office wear or garden events.
As the name suggests have a strap at the back. The beauty of this shoe is it looks classy and effortless at all times. You can also find variations of chunky or kitten heels.
Usually, loafer heels don’t have a fastening system are are extremely comfy. They can be worn as both dress shoes and casual shoes and are a good pair in every ladies closet.
Their heels resemble an ice-cream cone with a very wide top and narrow bottom. They are classy and are a good balance between high and low heels.
It resembles a comma and look like kitten heels. They normally tend to curve inward or outward depending on the design.
With an illusion of a double heel,this shoe has a wider top and bottom but a narrow middle section. They are good for both evening and formal wear.
The shoe is definitely a girl-next door shoe with an added vintage look. They can be worn formally and casually and their low heel makes it easy to style them.
They are very easy to wear as they’re slide-on. These shoes are multi-purpose and are in vogue at the moment.
This shoe is considered comfy courtesy of its base.It has a thicker and wider base making it easier to walk in them.The difference between the top of the heel and the bottom of the sole is very minimal.
These are one of the most comfortable high heels as they offer much more support with both the heel and the sole are evenly distributed.
Fashion: Lupita Nyongo’s best red carpet looks
Lupita Nyong’o burst into the Hollywood scene full throttle in 2013 with her breathtaking acting prowess in 12 Years a Slave . This lady is a force to reckon with as she doubles as a style star and author. The Lancôme fashion ambassador always blows people away with her spectacular hairdos and fashion picks.
Scroll down for some of our favorite Lupita Nyong’o red carpet looks:
The Bold Red
Lupita graced the 71st Golden Globes 2014 in a striking red Ralph Lauren dress. She left everyone in awe with this number that landed her on every best-dressed list. She kept both her hairdo and jewelry very simple letting the dress take star of the day
Pleated green chiffon
Lupita Nyong’o stunned the 2015 Cannes Film Festival in a jade green silk Gucci pleated dress. She rocked this gown like a pro and wearing her hair up was a good idea as we could focus more on her facial features and the dress. Would you believe that in 2017 Queen Bee herself wore the same dress at the Beauty and the Beast Premiere. Who do you think wore it best?
Lupita loves pleated outfits and she looks absolutely gorgeous in them,we couldn’t agree less. She wore this Givenchy beautiful long pleated skirt with a wide obi-belt waist at the 2014 NAACP image awards. This look was a good combo and it matched perfectly with her skin color
The actress looks like a fearless goddess with this shimmering black and gunmetal gown. She wore this Elie Saab number on the red carpet at the 2018 BAFTAs
Jade Inspired gown
We fall in love with Lupita’s style courtesy of this jade-colored gown. She wore this calvin klein collection dress to the 2016 Met Gala accompanied with a gravity-defying hairdo. She kept it simple with Tiffany & Co. jewelry, and Jimmy Choo shoes.
Bold and Beautiful
All hail the Queen
The actress looked like an African Queen with this Rosie Assoulin ensemble. She also had a multicolored headpiece that I think she would have done without but managed to look good nonetheless. This look was at the screening of Queen of Kate in London on 2016.
This Prada dress and Fred Leighton jewelry is a favorite of many. She won over so many hearts with this Cinderella baby blue hue that made her look magical. She had this at the 86th Annual Academy Awards, March 2014. In an Instagram post shared last year on October, she revealed that the blue dress that Sulwe wears in her book was inspired by this 2014 gown. This was her first Academy Awards ceremony and she recalls it as a magical experience. Her goal has always been to give dark skin the power to exist in the world of magic, dreams and imagination and she surely brought her point home.
Chic two-tone look